attitude

talk spicy
To speak boldly, recklessly, or disrespectfully — but with charisma. Spicy talk is that verbal heat rappers throw out when they’re feeling themselves and ready to turn any conversation into a diss track. “He started talking spicy — now everybody’s quiet like Wi-Fi died.”

extra
“Extra” describes a person who has taken the concept of enthusiasm, emotional expression, or theatrical flair and turned the dial well past social norms. The term gained mainstream traction through reality TV, meme culture, and social media commentary where calling someone “extra” is both critique and admiration. It acknowledges behavior that goes beyond what the moment requires—sometimes charmingly, sometimes catastrophically. The hallmark of an “extra” personality is the inability to perform mildly: every reaction is an audition, every outfit a red-carpet moment, every inconvenience a personal attack. “She brought a confetti cannon to study group—so extra.”

salty
When someone gets dramatically annoyed over something small—like getting left on ‘read’ for two minutes. Salt levels may vary. “Don’t be salty, it wasn’t that deep.”

boujee
Someone who lives like they’re rich even if their bank account is crying. Lux vibes, dramatic tastes, and zero shame included. “She’s so boujee with that $12 latte.”

extra
Describes someone doing the absolute most when the moment asked for… maybe half. It’s the vibe of a friend who turns a group text into a three-act drama, or the person who shows up to a casual hangout dressed like they’re auditioning for a music video. Being extra ain’t always bad—it just means your drama levels are permanently set to ‘season finale.’ “Why’d she bring a ring light to brunch? She’s so extra.”