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A “bludger” is that mate who mysteriously disappears whenever real work needs doing. Everyone knows one—the person lounging around while others run around like headless chooks. The term doesn’t come with real malice; it’s more of a playful nudge that someone’s being a bit too chill for the situation. Aussies love teasing each other, and calling someone a bludger is part roast, part encouragement to get off their backside. Whether it’s skipping chores, dodging a shout, or avoiding packing up after a barbie, the bludger is always just ‘resting their eyes.’

I’m doing all the prep while that bludger just sits there.

“Barbie” is the soul of Aussie social life: a barbecue so laid-back it might as well be horizontal. Forget the tourist myth—Aussies don’t say “shrimp on the barbie.” They’re chucking snags, steaks, and maybe some mystery marinated thing their mate brought. A barbie is less about cooking skills and more about hanging out, arguing about footy, and pretending you didn’t burn the onions. It’s the unofficial community-building event of the country, from beaches to backyards. If someone invites you to a barbie, you show up with drinks, sunscreen, and no expectations of punctuality whatsoever.

Swing by the barbie this arvo—bring snags and good vibes.

A modern social ritual where one person informally assesses another’s emotional state, energy level, or general life stability. A vibe check can be friendly, chaotic, or spiritual depending on context. The phrase originally emerged from meme culture—sometimes used jokingly to suggest physically ‘checking’ someone—and has since matured into a sincere shorthand for emotional awareness. In practice, it balances humor with genuine concern, capturing the uniquely Gen Z approach to mental health: semi-serious, semi-ironic, fully relatable.

“Vibe check—are you okay or just pretending again?”

Borrowed from drag and LGBTQ+ ballroom culture, “tea” refers to gossip—juicy, scandalous, or mildly embarrassing information people pretend not to like but absolutely live for. “Spilling the tea” is the joyful act of sharing such information, ideally with dramatic pauses and supportive gasps. The term’s popularity skyrocketed via internet culture, where memes and reaction videos turned gossip consumption into a communal sport. Tea is not just information; it is entertainment, catharsis, and occasionally a fire hazard.

“Spill the tea—what really happened at that party?”